Openly Gay man's desire for a fling with a DL brother:

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An Openly Gay Man's Desire For A Fling With A DL Brotha:

This is an age old story that all homosexuals have. Most of us Gay or Bisexual brothers at some point in time, or even currently, have seen and have lusted for a supposedly straight man. I can speak for myself ever since I was a teenager. This crush I experienced for some of my Primary School male teachers. Even in the army, I had crushes for some of my buddies.

This desire does not discriminate between who is seemingly open or who is not. Desire has no bounds sexually. What we do as Gay or Bisexual men, is try to confirm to our own kind. And this can limit us greatly in terms of good prospects, or love relationships.
Have you ever wondered why some married heterosexual men have a woman on the side along with his spouse? Whom he feels very dearly for, and provides for as much as he can.

These kinds of relationships exist long before you or I became a reality, and will continue for as long as humans exists on this planet.
So a Down Low or secretive homosexual or bisexual, is no different from the open and obvious in desire. It just happens that a lot of "Fem Gay men" would prefer men who is not as fem looking or behaving as they are.and that is a fact!

Om Shanti.
Derryck.
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